Joe Asked: Should I tell my friend how I feel about her?
(reposting, but I did't get much before and I'm in DESPERATE need of some advice)
Okay, sorry for the long story, but I can't tell it any other way.
To start off, I officially met this girl maybe a year and a half ago when she kind of entered my friend group (Let's just call her Charlotte in case I need to distinguish between her and someone else). I had a huge crush on her from the beginning, but could never do anything because she had a boyfriend. But that was okay, we became friends and there were other girls so I wasn't constantly focused on her and everything was great being friends. I never expected her to become one of my best friends, I just stayed friends hoping she and her boyfriend and her would break up, but like I said before, I didn't expect to become so close as friends. Now I think I'm forever friend-zoned. They're still together now. I went off to college this fall and she's still in high school.
That's basically all that's happened so far, since I left we've been texting and stuff nonstop and I feel like we're closer now than we were ever before. But recently, it has been more painful for me more than ever being apart and knowing that I can't be with her.
I know it won't work out at this point in our lives and I don't plan for it to, but it's just that everytime I talk to her I feel like I'm lying to her. We'll text for hours and have a conversation from the time I wake up to the time I go to bed and the only thing I've ever wanted to say to her is that I love her! It feels like because I'm hiding this, that everything I say to her is a lie.
And what I've been feeling more and more I've been feeling that this is something I need to tell her, to be honest with her and myself (not to try and break her and her boyfriend up). I'm sure it will blow up in my face. It will probably irreparably damage our friendship too. I don't want this as she is one of my best friends and I care about her more than anyone and don't want to lose her, but this is something that's been eating me up like crazy. Now it's like I've gotten to the point that I think I NEED to do this or something to release the metaphorical pressure.
I was thinking I'd talk to one of my other best friends who's probably even closer to me because I don't have to distance myself on purpose, let's call her Julie. I don't really know how Julie would react to this though, they are also good friends and if I do this it could create a rift in our group when we all come home. I'm sure she would be supportive, but I'm not very trusting and I don't know if she wouldn't mention something to Charlotte. Julie probably wouldn't be surprised either, because during school, she kinda knew or suspected that I liked Charlotte and told her (she told me she was just joking around though) so now I'm not sure if Julie is the one I should go to. She's really the only person I would go to and I'm too afraid to even tell her! I just don't know what to do now, its killing me and I have no idea of what I should try.
I thought I'd try to tell Charlotte what I've been feeling when I come home for winter break, but I'm scared it will go horribly wrong and ruin our friendship. But I'm at the point where if I don't do something I'm going to explode! I just don't know what I should be doing!
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hello people, i've been bored recently and trying to find a mmorpg to play..i've played alot of mmorpgs (aion, rift etc..) but i didn't play much of WoW. Why? because i only have the original wow + the burning cascade. How is the lowbie zone right now? is it still empty when i was playing back in 2009? should i try WoW again? and what is the most populated server for US West . Thanks
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Also, are rift private servers, you know, legal? I remember they are (or used to be) legal for WoW